About

When I was enlisted in the military, I met an Air Force reservist named Bob while deployed to Panama City, Florida who changed my life by taking me under his wing and teaching me confidence and how to pick up women at bars. For 90 days we would hit up the bars and clubs at Panama City Beach and run his pickup game he created that challenged our spontaneity and game with women on the weekends. Today this would be called a Pickup Bootcamp. Men pay thousands of dollars for this training, but I was learning from a natural with the best training. The highlights of my training were hooking up with a 9/10, tall, tanned, brunette sorority chick on the beach after the bar and a Coyote Ugly bartender chatting me up and offering her number.

After my success with women during my military years I carried that asshole cockiness to college and it attracted women. I was a playboy throughout my twenties. Although I was successful with one-night stands, I was still blue pilled and couldn’t keep women. I didn’t understand women. I just knew being a bold cocky asshole turned them on and they would want to sleep with me right away. I was having so much success with women I just did what works and didn’t stop and analyze why it works. I thought I had women figured out and someone will eventually fall in love with me and just not want a fling. I only knew what primally attracts women. I didn’t know anything about relationships.

At the age of 30 my blue pill mind decided it was time to put away the playboy life and settle down and get married to a “good girl.” I got into a two year relationship with a woman who I fell in love with and lost all my player principles and simped for her. She ended up cheating on me with a co-worker at her new job. She broke my heart and it was the most traumatic experience of my life. By God’s grace it was the way I caught her cheating that cornered her into telling the truth and she couldn’t gaslight me like all women do when they cheat on their man. This traumatic truth of how cold and calculating women can be when they are done with you made me question everything I knew about women and love. It was like the two years together meant nothing to her. This traumatic event would change the course of my professional life and love life for the better.

In 2012 during my heartbreak, I was searching for answers and googled “why did she cheat.” Articles of this man named Doc Love (RIP 2020) showed up on the search query. He sounded like a harsh teacher berating the readers for being simps who sent in emails asking for help with their dating woes. All his dating advice sounded so contrary to what society taught about women and relationships I thought it was satire. His advice sounded so unbelievable to work on women. Waiting a week to call and text a woman? But the more I read his advice I learned why I was never able to keep a woman interested in me too long. As a guy trained in pickup going in fast was all I knew. Calling and texting right away. I was the predator and women were the prey. That is the mentality of a pickup artist. Doc Love made me realize the truth about women is opposite. Women love a man who is a CHALLENGE. A man who is unavailable signals he has other women on his roster which makes him preselected with other women. Women love competing over men other women want. Men are the prize. It was an earth-shattering red pill truth that took me YEARS to understand and to embody.

I’ve been in great relationships since discovering the Red Pill and becoming a master student of Doc Love and earning my PhD in Red Pill theory. I’ve been breaking hearts and walking away from bad women ever since. I’m in my early 40’s and MGTOW (men going their own way) but still dating.

I understand the pareto principle 80/20 rule applies to men in the dating market. A lot of you reading this will struggle just to get one woman interested because of things you can’t control. You can’t control your height, your facial structure, your race, or who finds you attractive. I can’t control who is attracted to me. But you can control how you act around women when you meet them in person. You have control over yourself in how they perceive you in the context when they meet you. Attraction for women is two parts: physical and contextual. I will be writing E-books that are based on cognitive behavioral therapy I received from an outstanding therapist who I saw for assertiveness training to help you with Frame Control which is the foundation to masculinity and respect. The two things that will make any man more attractive contextually.

I’m one of the few Red Pill dating coaches that has experienced the entire spectrum of the Red Pill except for marriage and divorce. From being the “Chad,” to being the Pickup artist, to being the playboy, to being the other guy to married women, to falling in love, to turning into a simp, to heart break, to making the full conversion from blue pill to red pill after experiencing red pill rage, to alpha widowing 3 women, to being in serious relationships. There is almost no experience in dating and relationships that I can’t navigate and not know what to do.

You can say you given up on dating and women but what happens when you run into a woman who is attracted to you, and you are attracted to her? You are going to date her. And then you will fall into your blue pill ways again and lose her. Red Pill Bullet is going to frame the Red Pill in different angles with practical examples that may give you a new or deeper understanding of a principle. Dating or not, Red Pill Bullet is going to help you understand women, dating, relationships, and the Red Pill on a deeper level!